When you are in the hard time, your partner will always stand by you and that makes you and your lover a tighter love bond.
And THAT can be a problem, especially when it comes to monogamy.
To some, being "Exclusive" means agreeing not to have sexual relations with anyone else. Them not sleeping with others might just be their own way of practicing patience or abstinence, moreso that it indicating that they're committed to eachother.
Some may not "give it up" b/c they wouldn't do so with anyone, vs.
” That’s the beauty of dating- you never know how serious it’s going to turn out.
Trying to “make it serious” is a universal thing, something both guys and girls do when they find a person they like and, although I am all for being honest with your feelings I don’t think that should give you or him the excuse to start pushing it.